Plastic Surgery: Yes or No?

Updated: Apr 2, 2020

Can Cosmetic Surgery really make me happy? In a world of over-obsessed people who chase after the youth drug, is cosmetic surgery truly the answer? Where do we draw the line…and what do we do when a “Spiritual woman like you or me decides that perhaps they would like to have something done!…should we love ourselves just the way we are because that's what Spirituality teaches us, right? Or is the anti-surgery movement just as judgemental as any other black or white belief system? Does cosmetic surgery ever have a justified place? When are cosmetic surgeries a must? Most people accept if you have cosmetic surgery to fix a Nepalese child's lip that’s ok but if a Western woman wants to enlarge her breasts then that is not acceptable. But if a woman with oversized breasts that are giving her back pain has a reduction that’s ok…so where do we draw the line? I for one have had breast augmentation several years back. Why did I do it? Simply because I had a bad bust and was tired of looking at myself…I did it simply because I could. For myself to make me feel better about my appearance. 15 years on it is still one of the best things I ever did for myself. I also have done botox for years, I freely admit to that. What's important is to know where to draw the line. In my opinion its all about self-esteem. If something bothers you so much it's affecting your thoughts about yourself negatively then why not do something about it if you can improve yourself. Having my surgery made me feel so much more confident and sexy, and they suited my frame better so I am now in more proportion. As a trusted transformational Wellness Expert, I've had people say to me I'm a contradiction in term…I should love myself just the way I am…. BUT I am also an Aesthetician who is also aware of physical appearance and let's face it whether we like it or not, we are judged within 3 seconds of meeting someone. For me, your appearance states…”I respect myself”. Our thoughts play a big role in what energy we give off and our energy attracts the same back to us, so if we are feeling bad about ourselves we attract the same vibration, whereas if we feel good about ourselves we attract better experiences to us….so it is very important to feel good about